tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6241612993580002090.post7150899638566661278..comments2024-03-12T07:30:56.422+00:00Comments on Dolly Dowsie: How Are Babies Made? ♥Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06240109339578293227noreply@blogger.comBlogger32125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6241612993580002090.post-30370014710556919962017-01-02T21:24:33.359+00:002017-01-02T21:24:33.359+00:00Thank you for posting this. We've been trying ...Thank you for posting this. We've been trying for a year and a half, and I feel the very same. It's a rough roller coaster, and the pregnancy annoucments from friends just keep coming... And like you, I'm very happy for them, but it does hurt, and it reminds me that all I can do in that realm of life is fail. :-(Sami Johttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01411795468830198599noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6241612993580002090.post-39152578289783528262016-12-19T21:45:31.940+00:002016-12-19T21:45:31.940+00:00I think with us, I became obsessed. Number 1 was a...I think with us, I became obsessed. Number 1 was a surprise. It took 4 years to have number 2 when we were trying and number 3 just happened too. The obsession I felt with number 2 was awful. You are constantly on a 2 week cycle of trying and waiting. Trying and waiting xxFarmer's wife and mummyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03946112385583749834noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6241612993580002090.post-82263786710409349522016-12-14T17:42:05.200+00:002016-12-14T17:42:05.200+00:00It's like you've been in my head taken out...It's like you've been in my head taken out every thought I feel guilty for having and written it on a page. I cry every month then get gloriously pissed - not cos it makes me feel any better but because I can. And eat pate. And soft cheese - basically all the things you shouldn't do if I was actually pregnant. I'm probably going to get someone comment that this won't help my fertility but in that moment NAFs are given! <br />It's so frustrating because when you break it down you essentially have 1 go at it every month. So when you go after 6 or 9 months and they say come back in 3 - why? Is three more goes at it really going to make that much difference?? I'm sure fir some people it does but when you are thinking, why not me, you just want an answer to your question!<br />Thank you for your honesty! Jenni https://www.blogger.com/profile/04320238130834118563noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6241612993580002090.post-90480139790990827542016-11-29T09:51:40.247+00:002016-11-29T09:51:40.247+00:00Thank you so much for writing this! I can relate t...Thank you so much for writing this! I can relate to a number of things you've mentioned. I spent a year coming off medication so hubby & I can try for a family. It's been really hard work & I'm struggling without my meds. Particularly in terms of PMS. Having 2 weeks of a month completely written off is me fun at all. While we'be only just started trying, the process has been a long one & being told to wait until after I had some gastro tests done means I've had extra cycles that have exhausted my mind & body. How do some people get pregnant so easily? I need their formula, because at the moment I'm scared that wanting my symptoms to end will become more than wanting a baby. Good luck, I hope we both have exciting news to share in the very near future. Xx<br /><br />Tania | <a href="http://whentaniatalks.com" rel="nofollow">When Tania Talks</a>Taniahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07856491585948580741noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6241612993580002090.post-25984851748737225442015-08-28T04:09:23.674+01:002015-08-28T04:09:23.674+01:00I am sure your little one will come around soon - ...I am sure your little one will come around soon - I know some people who struggle with it too.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04813161740302836313noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6241612993580002090.post-23423212114616086622015-08-26T15:47:30.741+01:002015-08-26T15:47:30.741+01:00Your post is so true, it really does seem like a l...Your post is so true, it really does seem like a lottery. When we decided to stop trying to prevent getting pregnant, I got pregnant on my very first cycle, it was totally unexpected, because I honestly thought we would need to be trying for a year. After my first trimester I found out I have a bicornurate uterus and my chances of conceiving is actually halved - so did we just hit the jackpot the first time? No idea, I am already nervous about when we want to try again. The only thing I can advise is to try and de-stress your life, stress can stop your body from functioning properly - so that maybe why people who are not trying get pregnant. Either way, I send you best wishes for the future xAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12872837615131033285noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6241612993580002090.post-51557631336040345102015-08-18T22:40:29.784+01:002015-08-18T22:40:29.784+01:00My friend was diagnosed with PCOS which made it ve...My friend was diagnosed with PCOS which made it very difficult for her to conceive. After many ups and downs and tries (and doctor visits), she gave birth to my god-daughter, and had two babes afterwards. Sometimes, the stress of trying to conceive can also become a barrier. Stay positive! I know it's hard, but it helps.Yona Williamshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04661104349650032168noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6241612993580002090.post-17646547490506153792015-08-18T18:30:36.840+01:002015-08-18T18:30:36.840+01:00I'm sorry about this. I went through this wit...I'm sorry about this. I went through this with my first. Just hold on to your little guy and pray that it will happen. Kristenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12882725290762463732noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6241612993580002090.post-3566946844104135682015-08-18T17:42:41.105+01:002015-08-18T17:42:41.105+01:00Thank you for sharing your story. I'm sure tha...Thank you for sharing your story. I'm sure that it has helped someone who is going through the same issues. I have a friend that is in almost the same situation (they've lost several in the attempt for baby number two). I'm sorry for your heartbreaking loss and I hope that everything works out for you <3Kirahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04933325981443393023noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6241612993580002090.post-89755132360103162722015-08-18T11:30:32.078+01:002015-08-18T11:30:32.078+01:00You really indeed are not alone. I had an neighbo...You really indeed are not alone. I had an neighbor who was married 10 yrs and could not conceive. They had adopted and had their daughter a couple months before finding out she was pregnant. It was joyful and shocking to them both because they had thought they couldn't conceive. Now they have one adopted daughter and two sons they had conceived. It will happen for you again. Never say never. Thanks for sharing. Rebecca Swenorhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16443501344157166003noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6241612993580002090.post-74125896942781507492015-08-18T06:24:16.319+01:002015-08-18T06:24:16.319+01:00You aren't alone. One of my dearest friends st...You aren't alone. One of my dearest friends struggles with this as well. She has been trying to conceive for a while now without success. This is such a beautifully written post. Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17496719156344073414noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6241612993580002090.post-17386962565149483282015-08-18T05:41:36.008+01:002015-08-18T05:41:36.008+01:00As a mother, my heart goes out to you. I am so inc...As a mother, my heart goes out to you. I am so incredibly grateful to have my two wonderful boys, I couldn't imagine life without them! Susie's Reviewshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03054509546192781983noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6241612993580002090.post-48616280438320893642015-08-18T04:04:37.896+01:002015-08-18T04:04:37.896+01:00I hope that you are able to expand your family soo...I hope that you are able to expand your family soon. Best wishes to you and yours!krystalhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16591716925656494613noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6241612993580002090.post-25710781265549583902015-08-18T03:28:17.526+01:002015-08-18T03:28:17.526+01:00I totally understand where you are coming from, I ...I totally understand where you are coming from, I actually have an appointment to speak with my doctor about my fertility tomorrow. I wish you all the best on your journey trying to conceive another blessing, I can't wait until I have a baby of my own!Lauren Harmonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12319624218899808939noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6241612993580002090.post-91491747016328614322015-08-18T00:01:02.215+01:002015-08-18T00:01:02.215+01:00My heart goes out to you for your difficulties in ...My heart goes out to you for your difficulties in getting pregnant. Getting pregnant was easy for me but carrying was a whole different story. In a way, I can empathize with your pain.Shonda @AbundantJourneyshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17955795896467671554noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6241612993580002090.post-9136256560530682902015-08-17T16:45:20.242+01:002015-08-17T16:45:20.242+01:00I’m extremely thankful and grateful that I’m one o...I’m extremely thankful and grateful that I’m one of the lucky ones who was able to get pregnant on the first try. I really feel for the women and couples out there who are having difficulties. I feel for you and I wish you all the best and will keep my fingers crossed for you.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06050487626524999667noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6241612993580002090.post-53590227141025344662015-08-17T16:09:46.925+01:002015-08-17T16:09:46.925+01:00My heart goes out to you as well. I will be thinki...My heart goes out to you as well. I will be thinking wonderful thoughts for you as you take this journey.mail4roseyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17850985344834209198noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6241612993580002090.post-26661784388415629132015-08-17T16:05:44.682+01:002015-08-17T16:05:44.682+01:00I suffered so many miscarriages. I had an ectopic ...I suffered so many miscarriages. I had an ectopic pg before my 1st child and then 4 miscarriages followed. I'm sorry you're going through this. I did get 2 babies finally and each and every pregnancy involved multiple surgeries. After 2 boys we did adopt a girl because I simply couldn't go through all that again. I now looking back don't regret anything and am happy with my little family. Praying for yours! Dinahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05716556569385067997noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6241612993580002090.post-26193940603274573032015-08-17T16:03:31.579+01:002015-08-17T16:03:31.579+01:00Thank you so much for sharing your personal story....Thank you so much for sharing your personal story. I can never understand all of this as well how some can get pregnant easily while others can't. Bonnie Ghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04811991255707253536noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6241612993580002090.post-35186372897253934862015-08-17T11:50:44.355+01:002015-08-17T11:50:44.355+01:00What a heartfelt post today! My heart goes out to ...What a heartfelt post today! My heart goes out to you! Sometimes things just don't work out in life like we all might like it to! I wish you luck!Joanne T Fergusonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02441355553814761255noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6241612993580002090.post-64471682572047311632015-08-17T05:11:14.853+01:002015-08-17T05:11:14.853+01:00every fertility book says that after you have trie...every fertility book says that after you have tried for one year, you need to go and have everything checked out...I hope you have done that. If not go...then check out a group called RESOLVE which helps people deal with infertility. IT's a real thing, don't let anyone convince you otherwise. Shelley Zurek -- Still Blonde after all these YEARShttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16289929826861336651noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6241612993580002090.post-37069206756903199202015-08-16T22:34:59.962+01:002015-08-16T22:34:59.962+01:00It happened to my sister. She had to wait for 9 ye...It happened to my sister. She had to wait for 9 years. She spent so much to get pregnant. She gained so much weight due to hormone treatment she received. She finally got pregnant. Deal Match Makerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11230652066295362189noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6241612993580002090.post-27362345092033869732015-08-16T22:01:17.777+01:002015-08-16T22:01:17.777+01:00I was young too when I wanted my first and didn...I was young too when I wanted my first and didn't understand what was going on, didn't make sense. Tried fertility drugs, shots, etc and just one year out of the blue it happened...keep the faith...now I have 3.Frugal Qponerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12930353207206568636noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6241612993580002090.post-10552056604982587272015-08-16T21:06:03.539+01:002015-08-16T21:06:03.539+01:00I've never had to deal with this in my life, a...I've never had to deal with this in my life, and I'm grateful for that. I can't imagine the frustration and sadness that must come with a protracted attempt to get pregnant. I'm sorry it's taking so long. =(Benhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05926831216645362092noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-6241612993580002090.post-35528703718156086622015-08-16T15:31:24.450+01:002015-08-16T15:31:24.450+01:00Life is unfair, isn't it? I have some friends ...Life is unfair, isn't it? I have some friends who are struggling with secondary pregnancies. Getting pregnant wasn't easy for me, too, but I'm glad I did get pregnant. It took me 8 years before I got pregnant with my second child. Esme Syhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03466768811423451386noreply@blogger.com