When you have children, keeping your home tidy is next to
impossible.
They think the floor counts as shelf space and will throw
down things immediately after you pick them up. Their toys are
permanently floor items and eating is a messy time.
It’s hard to keep your house clean when you always have to feed, bathe, look after and entertain someone for the majority of the day - but it is doable.
If you’re like me and a messy home stresses you out, or you just love
to not live in a dumping ground, then go on and put these tips to the
test. Using any one of them would be effective, but if you want to get
the best results, you should use them all together.
Cut Down Your Expectations
An entirely tidy and organised house is impossible with kids around.
You should always expect some level of clutter and general messiness.
Revisit your definition of tidy. Things will not be as they used to be
pre-children until they grow up and move out so don’t expect a house
that’s company ready at all times. Be prepared not always to have things
in their proper place, or have clean surfaces or walls for as long as
you have toddlers at least.
Also, when writing your to-do list,
replace “clean up the house” with something less mentally draining like
“vacuum and mop the floors” or “wipe the surfaces” to make it easier to
begin the task.
Clean Up After Bedtime
Cleaning up after your kids go to bed is hard
to do since you’re going to be tired from work and taking care of the kids
all day, but it’s worth it to stay motivated.
The best thing about
this method is that everyone’s asleep already, so no one’s going to mess
the house up again. As an added advantage, you get the blissful feeling
of waking up to a clean home; believe me when I say that there’s no
better feeling than that!
You can still pick things up during the
day – it’s best to do this because it makes it easier at night – but
devote 10-15 minutes post bedtime for a final thorough clean. You can go
through each room to pick up any askew toys and wipe off their crayon
masterpieces. Vacuuming isn’t advisable unless you have deep sleepers.
Give Them More Screen Time
Don’t feel guilty just yet; you’re not a terrible parent.
I’m not saying to chuck them down in front of the TV or let them play
with your iPad for long hours, but a couple of episodes of their
favourite TV Shows won’t hurt.
Allowing them to have some screen
time gives you at least 20 minutes to do a quick vacuum and mop – just
vacuuming is never enough – or some laundry. Moreover, having them
occupied means you’re free of your helpers who only help you get more
work.
Don’t let the guilt eat you up. It’s a small price to pay for your clean house.
Have a Play Area
One of the most important ways to keep your house
clean when you have toddlers around is to have a play area and restrict
toys to that room.
Children tend to drop whatever they’re with
wherever they are, so restrict play time to a particular area of your
house to make sure their toys never go out of there and cause physical
damage to an unsuspecting resident. Having a definite area for play also
makes it easier for you to clean since all the mess is in one place.
If you have enough space, you can designate a whole room to play. If
you don’t, your play area can be your living room or a cordoned off part
of your living room.
A designated play area will cut your cleaning time in half.
Stay on Top of Laundry
For many people, laundry is where it all falls apart. Quite a lot of
moms complain about having everything but laundry down, and it’s easy to
see why that happens.
Something that always works is to do the
laundry at least three times a week. Some parents do it every day, and
you may have to if you have extra messy eaters, pukers, or kids who play
outside a lot. But for most families, laundry days every other day
works just fine.
Keep laundry hampers in all rooms, even the living
room, so there’s never dirty laundry lying around. Having a hamper in
the corner of your living room is a lot better than having dirty clothes
on the sofa or floor.
Teach them to Keep Things off the Ground
This task is hard with
toddlers but teaching them to put things back is a great way to keep the
house tidy and teach them cleanliness at the same time.
Neatness is
a required skill for all persons and people often live the way they
lived as kids so if you teach your kids that everything has its place
and keeping their living space clean is a priority, they’re sure to grow
into well-functioning adults who know the importance of a clean house.
You can use shelves or a toy hamper to store toys when not in use. If
you decide to go with shelves, make sure you pick one with an ideal height so they can easily reach their toys and put them back. Ease of
access will make it easier for them to learn to keep their toys in their
proper place. You can also use a reward system, but this tends to
backfire as they’d expect a reward whenever they do something right.
As I stated earlier, keeping your home tidy and organised with young
children around is next to impossible so don’t feel like the worst
parent/adult on the planet if you can’t keep the mess in check.
One
extra tip: use child-friendly multipurpose cleaning agents. Your kids
are mostly going to be around while you clean, so it’s best to keep the
chemicals away. It’s best to use non-toxic cleaners, so your kids don’t
accidentally poison themselves when you look away.
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